i.reply({components: [actrow2], embeds: [success("Success!", "This is an emerpheral message. None except you can see it. You have 15 seconds to choose your favourite user", i.user)], flags: MessageFlags.Ephemeral}).then(__ => {
    i.channel.createMessageComponentCollector({
        time: 15000,
        componentType: ComponentType.UserSelect,
        filter: (i_) => {i_.user.id == m.author.id && i_.customId == "dropdown"}
    }).on("collect", interaction => {
        console.log("Collected interaction pick user")
        interaction.reply("a").then(rep => rep.delete())
    }).on('end', (interactions) => {
        console.log("Ended the collecting of interaction pick user")
        if(interactions.size < 1) return;
        m.channel.send(interactions.first()?.users?.first()?.username)
        i.reply({content: "Success", flags: MessageFlags.Ephemeral})
    })
})